It was wonderful to have known Pam over the past 45 years, when our two families met in Durban, South Africa. Pam was very kind and supportive in so many ways over the years. I am so glad we had a chance to catch up in Sevenoaks a few years back, that was very special. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Brian, Neil, Nicki and all the family. Farewell Pam. Love Steve & Helen Addison Melbourne, Australia

Warm memories of our holiday in Portugal when Pam was our guide and translated. Also shared the driving with Brian and we didn’t get lost too often, when we did Pam would sort it all out and we were soon back on the right road.

I will raise a glass of Dubonnet to you on the 15th Pam - a large one! Sister Sue. Xx

Will miss your sense of fun Pam. Will always remember your kindness to me when I lost Michael.

Mum was always trying to be 'fair'. That was her thing. Nicki and I will no doubt laugh when we glance through 'The Little Red Books' ! It doesn't seem 'fair' when you think she grew up through the ravages of WWII and ended her life enduring the restrictions of a pandemic. But she always fought through and these things made her who she was. Here's hoping heaven is a bit 'fairer' on you Mum. I'm sure it is. Love Neil, Alison, Will & Maddie

Thank you for setting up this memorial to Pamela. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.